Whom do you refer to like your friends? Is this the person who spends the most time with you? Or the person who always lives in trouble? Is it a really good definition of a friend or should be just a real friend with a real meaning?
We could see the meaning in a dictionary, but nobody could do that. And it will not change your answer within your thoughts. What do you really feel like a real friend, what do you consider yourself to be a true friend?
The reason why I bring it because, which I once consider myself a good friend, when I actually paid attention, there was not a great friend to me. My definition of a friend is that person who has your thoughts and beliefs near you. Someone might be related to you and what do you believe in how you feel.
In order to move forward on this, a friend should have another type of relationship, not take it fully or give it, but it should be equal on both sides of the spectrum. Without this equilibrium, someone is being exploited, in which unfortunately many people make friendships and think how it should be.
Apart from this, a friend must be encouraged and supported by a friend’s decision, if they know and trust in their friend’s choice. There will be times where friends disagree, which is fine, everyone has the right to choose themselves. But still, to believe in them, even if they do not care for this reason, this is friendship.
I had a friend in my special situation, let’s name him Bob to protect his name here. Whatever was going on in difficult times, his girlfriend was not accepting it as a crap at the age of 3 years, I knew that she was also contributing, but I felt bad for her and friendship with her and helped her. I let her stay with us and my family when she finally decided to leave her and stand for her. We talked and got to know each other better, and become decent friends, or so I thought. I soon came to know how many friends he was with us to live with Celebrating Victory.
The first things looked good, our agreement was for them to come back on their feet and get their place. I know that before getting the place, there is a need to raise some money from my work, so I knew that it could be months or even earlier before it could take some important steps. A few months passed and it seemed that nothing else had happened, he was making himself at home, and there was not much progress when he tried to move forward. To help speed things, he started renting it and covered our expenses earned in our home.
And this whole time, when we were not in the same house, we were ahead of being in touch since then. To find out that he is spending his second time after coming out of the time when he went in. He wanted the best for him but advised that this could not be the right time to start another relationship.
So go ahead fast, and now Bob and his new girlfriend were staying with us !!! I do not know how it came, but it happened. When you believe that you are a friend, you are sometimes darkened by the ways in which your tampering is done. Although it was brief before meeting their own place, even then it happened.
To bring you present, Bob and his new girl, whom I would call birth, broke and took all my things. Even though I warned him about the relationship, I was still there for him. Now to track a little bit, I am associated with my business and also brought him along, because I knew that this could help him because that has helped us. To get more involved in my business and spend some more time with the family, I thought it was time to change the job, I told Bob and he said that I was crazy and my business would fail me.
Now I know as if it seems that I have gone a long way from here, which is our real friend, but this example tells more than any word written through personal experience. At that moment, I realized that he was not my friend, because he did not support me, but more importantly, it was not that he would never get out of the races of 9 to 5, most people believe that the only option is. I did not realize how much he was not friends until I developed myself personally.
I say to say all this, our friends are those who match the level of trust, and they are not taking it continuously, but to give and share. Who believes better for you, and has acquired it automatically, and advises you to be successful. Who can pick you up, and before you can see it, you can see things for yourself. The one who can help you to realize your full potential and understand this
And friend, if you can relate to this story, and that has happened, I want you to know that you have a friend. Although I do not know you or you can never meet me, I trust you. You deserve it, and also makes your family do something better. If you are looking for a way to do this for yourself, then I am happy to help you get there. Or if you are already on your way, keep moving. If you leave, then the only way you will fail.
Best wishes to you, and the trip that is waiting for you. Hope you are a great help and inspiration for many people. For your success …